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Unity Submitted on the 2020/06/13 18:33:03
By: UnityUnity is offline
Location : South Africa
Community Ranking : Friendship God : 1000100010001000100010001000
Total count : 9308
Joined : 2009/03/06 19:07:32
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So during this episode my son has been going through. One of the down falls of this is that he is led off track very easy. And doesn't say no to anything for free, booze, drugs or selling his stuff off.

He has a friend that lives 40m away from us, and they use METH... omg I never even knew what that was.

They gave some to my son, and he became aggressive, I am not sure how to approach this with these people. I have told them if I find out that they gave him any drugs again. I would report them to SAPS and WELFARE...

They use the children's SASSA grants to get drugs and within two days walking around begging for food.

They simply don't care, there are church groups and welfare groups bring them food parcels that they then try sell off...

It would be so awesome if anyone could tell me what to do.....









It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.


Unity Submitted on the 2020/06/15 17:49:21
By: UnityUnity is offline
Location : South Africa
Community Ranking : Friendship God : 1000100010001000100010001000
Total count : 9308
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So this so called friend, appeared at our gate today.... my heart dropped hoping my son does the right thing.
He went to the gate and told these people sorry he is going to town quick. They didn't look happy but trust me I was very happy and impressed with my son.



It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.


Unity Submitted on the 2020/06/17 18:23:35
By: UnityUnity is offline
Location : South Africa
Community Ranking : Friendship God : 1000100010001000100010001000
Total count : 9308
Joined : 2009/03/06 19:07:32
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Don't they ever stop, I supply my son with coffee sugar and milk for his flatlet, however no sooner is it in his flat, these people appear and ask for just that.

Well now I do it differently I make him two flasks of coffee per day.



It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.


Unity Submitted on the 2020/06/19 11:14:53
By: UnityUnity is offline
Location : South Africa
Community Ranking : Friendship God : 1000100010001000100010001000
Total count : 9308
Joined : 2009/03/06 19:07:32
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So today my son is staying indoors, so far so good.
For some reason THOSE friends, haven't been past, but guessing they got other means for today.
Hope they stay away....



It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.


Unity Submitted on the 2020/06/24 21:28:47
By: UnityUnity is offline
Location : South Africa
Community Ranking : Friendship God : 1000100010001000100010001000
Total count : 9308
Joined : 2009/03/06 19:07:32
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When my son had his relapse I spoke to these so called friends. And asked if or when my son brings items to them to please return them to me. They agreed... liars.


To date this is what they have of my son's:

All the dishes out his kitchen.
Heater
Clothing.
Xbox
Games
Pots and pans
and on Monday almost his toolbox, I bought it back from these people

I told the I don't want them on our property, if my son visits there I can't stop him but I sure as hell can stop them entering my property.

FED UP...




It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.


Unity Submitted on the 2020/07/02 10:38:11
By: UnityUnity is offline
Location : South Africa
Community Ranking : Friendship God : 1000100010001000100010001000
Total count : 9308
Joined : 2009/03/06 19:07:32
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This so called friend approached me and was trying to have an argument with me. Telling me how dare I say he has given my son drugs, I stepped forward and replied, " I saw it in my son's eyes". Ja but I only gave him once, I said I rest my case. Please don't bother me with bs...

He left and has now been two weeks this so called friend hasn't been near our home.
When it comes to a person's children one has no fear.
Even when the person opposite you is 6.4 and you only 5.5 lol size doesn't matter when it is your children...




It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.


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